Well I just want to tell you about the analogy that Don Miguel Ruiz talks about in his book.
Imagine having a magic kitchen...where anything I mean ANYTHING you want to eat you get from this kitchen. You invite ALL your family and friends and they also get ANYTHING they want from this kitchen.
One day someone knocks at your door and stands there with a pizza. You say hello and he says that for you to get this pizza you need to be nice to him and clean the house and then you will get all the pizzas you want...
You think, I ALREADY have all the food I could possibly want...so why would I need this guys pizza.
You nicely say to him Thank you but NO thank you, because you already have all you want.
NOW, take this analogy of the kitchen and relate it to LOVE. If you LOVE YOURSELF you do not need anyone else to fill the gap. If you love yourself and everyone around you that is all you will ever need. Isn't that great???
So just LOVE YOURSELF!!!! Go ahead and do this and when you meet someone who loves him or herself also all you need to do is live happily ever after side by side......
Simple isn't it?
Love Vibeke
http://vibekes-massage.genbook.com